Should i leave the big band/soll ich aus der Big Band gehen?
We are 4 trombones (2 girls, 2 boys) and I am one of them. The first year I started as the 2nd Trombone and it was pretty fun, but during the schoolyear I realised the two boys are turning really good friends and they started doing more together. I didn´t think much of it. After the holidays were over I couldn´t come to the first big band session but didn´t think much of it. But when i arrived the following time and set down i got the 3rd trombone. I asked the boys, if they made a mistake, because I play second. Suddently one of them said no i wanted to play second so you play third. Ofcourse these are only notes but i think it was a bit rude to just take my position and give me the third. Then he continued by saying how bad I would be for playing 3rd and when he saw that I was angry and sad about it he just continued making jokes with the other boy. They started making fun of me and say mean things, but only to me ( the other girl was sick). When I came home I cried, mostly because they thought i was just a joke and they could just rule around. The teacher didnt notice anything. Now my question: Should I go to my teacher? The problem is he doesnt really care about such stuff he would probably say they were just joking or stuff. Should I leave the Big Band? I just dont know what to do because if I leave the teacher might be dissapointed, even though big band is just as a choice. Because if I tell my Teacher what happend, i would play 2nd trombone, but the boys wouldn´t change.